Felicia Kashevaroff

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Three Aspects of Trust We Shouldn’t Ignore

By Felicia Kashevaroff

When you hear ‘trust in relationships’, what’s your immediate reaction? Infidelity? That’s a common association. While faithfulness is undeniably crucial, there are other often overlooked aspects of trust that subtly…

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What the Hell is Tend Task?

By Felicia Kashevaroff

You may be new to this page, or maybe you’ve been here for a while, and you’re wondering how you got here. Tend Task focuses on giving every couple the…

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Coaching Quiz Questions Answered

By Felicia Kashevaroff

Our passion at Tend Task is to help couples to build equitable, long-lasting relationships. Research, conversations with couples, and our own experience show us that it’s really hard for couples…

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Healthy Conflict

By Felicia Kashevaroff

Many couples assume that a happy, healthy relationship means that there will be no disagreements, no arguments, and no problems to solve. The reality is that conflict is a normal…

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Listening

By Felicia Kashevaroff

Recently we’ve offered up a couple of relationship exercises. In each one, we’ve given very specific instructions to listen to your partner with “curiosity and without judgment.” So, what does…

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Noticing

By Felicia Kashevaroff

Our absolute favorite book on household equity is Kate Mangino’s Equal Partners – Improving Gender Equality at Home. In the book, Mangino interviews a diverse group of forty men who…

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Shared Values

By Felicia Kashevaroff

What are your core values, and why are they important? The word value means something worthy or important. It can be applied to something with monetary worth, but in this…

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Holiday Post-Mortem

By Felicia Kashevaroff

As we’ve discussed, the holidays tend to be a total shit show for adults. In our efforts to create magic and joy for our loved ones, we end up creating…

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Coaching vs Therapy – What’s Right for Us?

By Felicia Kashevaroff

We often get asked about the difference between coaching and therapy. What’s the difference? Is one better than the other? Why would my partner and I see a coach and…

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FAQs for Expecting Parents

By Felicia Kashevaroff

We often hear from couples that it becomes increasingly difficult to maintain an equitable relationship when a new baby enters the picture. Here are some tips you can use to…

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