Get Your Own Life Back: A 60-Minute Workshop

For the woman whose calendar is full of things she dreads with no time left for a single thing that that lights her up.

Get your own life back; your time, your body, your ambition

without blowing up your life, feeling guilty, or waiting for a single man to change first.

60 minutes to rip out the invisible patriarchal scaffolding that has you sitting in your driveway scrolling Instagram, just to get 5 minutes when no one asks you for a single thing.

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It's a gorgeous life from the outside. You're hauling it around like a sack of potatoes.

You are brilliant, you are successful, you are running a massive life. Everyone in your house has big goals and your tireless support. Nobody has asked what your hopes and dreams are.

Living this way is like walking through your day with a sack of potatoes strapped to your back. There’s not one heavy thing you can point at and put down. There are forty small things that feel equally important, but nobody else can see. So you are the one sweating through your clothes, balancing the weight so the whole thing doesn’t come tumbling down.

You bought the digital calendar. You downloaded the shared app. You went through the excruciating Fair Play card deck exercise. You are still the one who notices when the milk runs out. Usually when it’s empty for your morning coffee.

You have tried communication book after communication book. You have lowered your standards until they hit bedrock just to try to find some relief.

And it doesn’t stay home. It follows you into the meeting where you said it first, and Greg got the credit. It follows you into the doctor’s appointment where you apologized for knowing your own body. And into the family group text, where you did the heavy lifting, and your brother got the thank you for the flowers his wife sent.

It's not You. It's the system.

You're waiting for permission that isn't coming.

You have been told the fix is to journal harder, set stronger boundaries, or explain yourself more calmly so the men around you finally get it. That is a trap. Focusing on men’s behavior still puts them in the middle of your life. You cannot decenter a target that you’re still aiming at.

Here is what it has actually cost you:

You can’t keep up with the business you launched that is supposed to be your ticket out of the corporate hellscape.
Your graduate degree is taking three times longer than it should because you keep having to drop classes to put out fires.
Uninterrupted, focused time for the creative pursuits you used to love; reading, writing, painting, poetry.
The friendships that were once your lifeline; the standing weekly happy hour where you laughed until you cried.
Epic friend trips that didn’t require months of scheduling and coordination.

You have been watching for signs of change and applauding when men do the absolute bare minimum. Nobody is keeping score of how many years you have spent supporting everyone else while your precious life passes you by.

You do not want another framework. You want the freedom to schedule a weekly class for yourself without worrying you’ll have to cancel so many times that the instructor never learns your name.

I’ve been there.

I’m Felicia Kashevaroff.

I studied sociology. I wrote papers on gender oppression. I was entirely convinced I was too smart to fall for the trap.

Then I got married, had three kids, and found myself standing in my bathroom staring at a toilet seat left up again. He simply did not think it was his job to notice. I became the exact case study I used to write about. And I did not see it coming.

I tried every communication framework on the market. None of it worked. Because the problem was never my communication skills.

Getting divorced allowed me to breathe. But it wasn’t until I fully deconstructed my patriarchal conditioning that I found myself again and built Tend Task so that you can too.

“Felicia’s coaching strategy is for you to develop your own path with full ownership so you have the tools for long-term sustainability. Having Felicia on your team is not a luxury. It’s a must.”

“Felicia! You are a godsend. You go on my list of people who have saved my life. Thank you so much for your brilliance and insight.”

“Felicia helped me learn to stop in my tracks and choose differently to produce a different outcome.”

What we are actually breaking down in the workshop.

This is not another workshop where you analyze the feelings wheel until you are blue in the face, and it is not a room for figuring out what to do about your marriage.

We are going to unmask the patriarchal conditioning that has been running every aspect of your life, understand why everything you have tried so far has failed, and map out the three-part framework that actually works. By the end, you will walk out with:

The root unmasked: Mapping out exactly how gendered conditioning took hold in your daily life, so you can stop blaming yourself for doing everything right while your calendar belongs to everyone else.
The failed-solutions autopsy: Seeing clearly why Fair Play, chore charts, organizer apps, and therapy did not touch the problem, and why they were built to protect the system instead of your time.
The three-part framework: The exact root, system, and ritual architecture required to deconstruct the conditioning and put your time, your body, and your ambition back at the center.

You are not going to spend another year managing a household that is fueled entirely by your energy.