WRITTEN BY Felicia Kashevaroff

What the Hell is Tend Task?

You may be new to this page, or maybe you’ve been here for a while, and you’re wondering how you got here.

Tend Task focuses on giving every couple the tools they need to build a secure, fulfilling relationship. We started years ago by discussing invisible labor’s impact on relationship health. We created an invisible labor tracker, and we had lots of success bringing that invisible labor to light in the lives of thousands of women. But we soon learned we needed to solve the problem, not just shine a light on it. We realized an unbalanced relationship was just one part of overall relationship health.

Tend Task

If you don’t have good communication skills, you won’t balance your relationship. If you’re not connected or aligned in your vision for the future, you won’t balance your relationship. We knew we needed to build a system that provided answers, real solutions that real couples could use to make their most important relationships strong and resilient. And that’s how we ended up at Tend Task.

We envision a future where we aren’t defined by our “Tasks” — one where we “Tend” to our relationships with the care and attention they deserve.

Our mission is to build a subtle revolution, one partnership at a time. By cultivating more calm, clarity, and joy in our relationships, we enhance our capacity to show up fully — for our partners, for our passions, and for ourselves.

At Tend Task, we believe:

  1. That every couple deserves a peaceful, joyful, loving partnership. We know how painful it is to live in an unhappy relationship – waking up with a pit in your stomach from the night before. Not knowing what to say to express your discomfort, avoiding conflict, and hoping it will just sort itself out. That’s a terrible way to live. We also know what it’s like to live in a peaceful partnership, one where you feel seen, heard, and loved, where you both know you’re on the same page, and your future is secure.
  2. If you are reading this, you are capable of building the relationship of your dreams. You have the love, and you made the commitment. You chose your person, and you want to make it work more than anything. You just need the skills and guidance to prevent common mistakes and misunderstandings. 
  3. Better relationships make the world a better place. Good relationships are good for our health and make us better humans. By living in harmony with our partners, we’re more likely to bring our best selves into the world, whether that means being nicer to your family or having the energy and support to change the world. We’re better together. 

Our coaching programs, courses, and mobile app are designed with your balanced, harmonious, passionate relationship in mind. We’re here when you’re ready to build the relationship of your dreams. Reach out!