WHY COACHING?
Our solution-focused coaching program is designed to bring clarity and calm into your relationship.
We enter into our relationships with optimism, but life can get in the way and derail us from building the life we both desire. Tend Task Coaching helps couples to define their shared vision, build robust communication skills, and cultivate long-lasting connection.
Our Method
We don’t believe in universal solutions. We begin at the beginning and learn about you and your partner. Exploring the stories and beliefs around communication, shared vision, and partnership, our coaching program focuses on your unique situation, identifying and illuminating your strengths and sticking points.
Together, we paint a picture of your ideally balanced life and clarify the steps to get there. In conjunction with the app, Tend Task Coaching utilizes simple behavioral changes, accountability structures, and fundamental relationship skills to help you cultivate the momentum needed for lasting change and joyful partnership.
Our Method
We don’t believe in universal solutions. We begin at the beginning and learn about you and your partner. Exploring the stories and beliefs around communication, shared vision, and partnership, our coaching program focuses on your unique situation, identifying and illuminating your strengths and sticking points.
Together, we paint a picture of your ideally balanced life and clarify the steps to get there. In conjunction with the app, Tend Task Coaching utilizes simple behavioral changes, accountability structures, and fundamental relationship skills to help you cultivate the momentum needed for lasting change and joyful partnership.
Who is Coaching For?
The fields of habit formation and personal development remind us that we’re only as good as our systems. This means that the problem isn’t you or your partner. It’s your systems.
Tend Task Coaching is for couples who want to improve their relationship systems to bring more connection and passion into their lives. Together with your partner, we sift through the layers of your life, keen and observing and unattached enough to see what’s really happening.
By identifying what’s working and what’s not, we craft a system tailored to your life and relationship. No matter where you are in your relationship, we can support you in building the skills you need to keep your relationship thriving for years to come.
Tend Task coaching was the perfect thing for our family to help relieve my mental load. In general, we are a great team but it can be hard to articulate the million things that go through my mind at any given minute in a productive way. Felicia was the absolute best at helping us to get to the route of our arguments and turning them into action to help our family function better. Our communication has improved so much and I can let go of worrying about every little detail knowing it will be handled. Thank you!
Brittany & Tyler
My coaching experience with Felicia completely revolutionized communication in my marriage. She was able to take my thoughts and feelings and verbalize them in a way that my partner could understand and receive, which helped bridge the gap. Her role as neutral observer helped keep our conversations productive and on track, and the check ins helped keep our focus, which is a challenge as busy parents.
Heather & AJ
Rachel - Felicia is amazing! She is so helpful and came from such a different angle when helping my partner and I. We had so many challenges communicating that led to frustration and resentment. When working with Felicia she helped us to understand each other better and how to communicate with each other in ways that worked for both of us.
Sherman - Felicia helped us figure out the deeper stuff that motivates and drives our conflicts, miscommunications or lack of. She could explain what she was seeing to each of us in ways we could understand, and helped us learn to STOP in our tracks and choose differently to produce a different outcome--understanding instead of anger, intimacy instead of distance, connection instead of separation.
Rachel & Sherman
Coaching Programs
The Tune-Up
This 4-week program is ideal for couples who already have healthy and robust communication skills. They know how to navigate difficult topics. Their households are functioning reasonably well, but they want to move beyond “just OK” to seamless and joyful.
Couples will identify shared and conflicting values, assess their current reality using the Tend Home Organizer app, then develop strategies for improving their household using the knowledge they uncover.
Let's Do This
This 8-week program is for couples who shy away from conflict and need more support with healthy communication and conflict resolution. They struggle to find the time to discuss important issues and need a common language to enhance connection.
Couples will first establish healthy communication skills before identifying shared and conflicting values and assessing their current reality using the Tend Home Organizer app as a tool. This package allows extra time to identify and evaluate strategies for implementing change.
Nuts and Bolts
This is our most impactful 12-week program, incorporating key relationship fundamentals to set you and your partner up for long-lasting success.
This program is for couples who want to start with the basics of interpersonal communication and use those tools to build a strong foundation for their new, healthy relationship dynamics. Once that foundation is solid, clients will then explore the stories and assumptions that hold them back from genuine connection and intimacy.
Couples will build healthy communication skills, deep dive into shared and conflicting values, assess their current reality using the Tend Home Organizer app, then use their discoveries to develop a balanced household system customized to their unique needs.
Additional Offerings
Individual Relationship Coaching
Do you need support on a specific topic? Want to try relationship coaching, but you’re not ready to commit to a program? You'll be amazed at how much we can accomplish in a single session. We encourage you and your partner to come focused and prepared with a goal, and we will work together to move you in the direction you want.
Monthly Relationship Coaching
Have big relationship goals you want to achieve? Want to set clear expectations and boundaries together? Work with us to define your shared values as a unit and set goals to support those values. Monthly subscriptions include weekly coaching sessions and text support between sessions.
Conflict Management Coaching
Conflict is a normal, healthy part of human interactions. Those who approach conflict with openness and curiosity are more likely to have long-term success in relationships. If you are at an impasse with your partner, we can help get you to the other side.