
Mini Course
How to Get Your Partner On Board for a More Balanced Relationship
Picture this...
Hi there, I'm Felicia. I help couples to build mutually beneficial, balanced, joyful relationships.
The most common question I get is how do I get my partner on board to build a balanced, equitable relationship with me?
I often have people come to me, eager for this kind of change. They feel frustrated and overwhelmed by the emotional, mental, and physical load of caring for their household and their family. They know this dynamic is unsustainable, but they don’t know how to change it. They’re desperate for their partner to hear their frustration, see the impact of their work, and engage with them to do things differently.


I usually hear some variation on the following:
- My partner would never agree to this
- They don’t think this is a problem
- They already think they’re doing enough
- They think I’m being unreasonable
- This is temporary because the kids are little
Well, I'm here from the future to tell you that this issue does not resolve itself.
An unbalanced relationship does NOT just get better without an intentional intervention…
And so, I created this course to help get you to the starting line, to give you the evidence-based tools you need to get clear on why change is important, to communicate that effectively to your partner, and to set you up to take action to make real, tangible change in your relationship.
"This course helped me feel seen and understood"
“I’ve struggled in many relationships with finding balance and feeling a sense of equality especially when it comes to household tasks. I’ve naturally fallen into the role because I like my house to be a certain way and become resentful toward my partner and found it hard to talk to him about my needs and get that support. This course helped me feel seen and understood and gave me great communication tools to be able to talk with my partner on common ground and find a better balance at home between us. It’s quick and easy to go through the lessons and I love the worksheets to put my thoughts on paper. Excited to start implementing Felicia’s techniques!”
Here's what you'll learn...

LESSON 01: Getting Clear on Your Why
What does the future look like?
In this lesson you’re going to get clear on your specific WHY for building a more balanced relationship. By the end, you’ll understand:
- That an unequal division of household labor is a systemic problem, it’s not a personal failing
- The real life consequences of an unbalanced relationship
- And the future YOU and your partner could have if things were to change

LESSON 02: Delivering Your Message Effectively
Crafting the Dialogue for Change
- How to set yourself up for success
- How to express your needs clearly and listen with empathy
- The best way to avoid common conversation pitfalls

LESSON 03: Actionable Steps To Equality
Determining the Next Steps for Building a Balanced Partnership
- The best books to get you started
- The pros and cons of couple’s therapy
- My signature system for building a balanced, equitable partnership — The TEND Technique